Hatred

Hatred is a very special/weird feelings. It is a weird emotion to have. If you truly hate somebody else, the person must have brought you a lot of pain. Yet why do we want to hold on this pain by trying so hard to get back on the person. We are paying so much attention to the ones we hate sometime even more than those who we love. Some people can sacrifice their love ones just to get their 'sweet' revenge.

Sometime I wonder can you hate someone so deeply without any love involved. I believe only one that you very love can hurt you that much as those who you do not have any feeling with will not affect you for whatever they do. They just cannot hurt you much as they have no access to the anger button of yours. Yet it is the one you love that cause you that much hurt and hatred.

If you love someone and you keep thinking of that someone is understandable as you enjoy the feeling but hatred is an entirely emotion yet we do so for? We are ultimately punishing ourselves for the wrong others have done to us. Yet often than not we cannot see this fact. Often we get trap in this vicious cycle and we are on the losing end.

They will benefit as they will see us suffer for whatever wrong they have done to us. This will further fuel they joy.

So the best way to treat them is to forgive them, forget about the wrong they have done to us. So they can have nothing against us. Forgiving is not the easy way. Spread the love to your enemies. Astound them with your forgiveness and great heart.

~Can Hatred exist without Love?~